The Pattern 01.30.2020 - Magnetic & Captivating

Magnetic & Captivating

You're meant to embrace your charismatic, generous, and confident side.  You're learning you have many talents and skills.  Don't be afraid to express yourself - it's important to own your infectious, extroverted and exciting nature; these qualities can act as inspiration for others.

It's possible that you shy away from letting yourself shine.  If you're afraid to embrace your power, you could hide your talents and diminish yourself.  Or you might go in the opposite direction, because you're a beginner, and overdo it.  In that case, it can be difficult for you to see beyond your own interests; you could act entitled or seek attention in inauthentic ways.

Go Deeper.

Embracing your confidence and innate power is key to your liberation.

You're intended to find the courage to make your life up any way that you desire.  Your charismatic, extroverted side makes you a magnetic presence in any room; you have that special something that people are just drawn to.

Depending on your environment and life experience, you may or may not naturally follow this impulse.  You might relate to this part of yourself, or it might feel it's impossible and scary to even think you're this way.

But for you to feel truly authentic, aligned, and content with yourself, it's imperative that you have experiences as a leader and visionary.  You have creative talents and abilities that can inspire others; you just need to trust yourself above all else.  You're meant to move confidently through the world, despite potential objections from your friends, family, or culture.

Make a freedom a top priority and follow your dominant, outgoing impulses.  You don't have to second-guess yourself or compare yourself to others.  While you may have other insecurities, you're meant to discover radical self-love and acceptance.

Your capacity to love yourself unconditionally is your gift to others.  Embracing an optimistic, positive expression of yourself will inspire and encourage others to do the same.

You may have always felt that you were special and destined to do something significant.  In that case, thanks to your natural charisma, you often get what you want - others might even feel privileged to be the one indulging you.

It's possible you expect to receive a certain amount of attention, but never fail to deliver when you do - you're charming enough that you can get away with it.  It's okay to prioritize your own experience and be self-focused - instead of sitting back and waiting for permission, take action to achieve your goals.

You may already know this about yourself or you might feel cautious about stepping into your true power.  You may fear being judged as selfish for doing what you want instead of submitting to convention or being submissive.

If you've repressed your naturally dominant and powerful energy, you'll likely feel frustrated, depressed, and like something is missing.

Or you might feel pressure to tone things down and focus on practical matters, but even within those parameters, it's important to carve out time for your dreams.  It's worth pursuing your desires, even on the smallest scale.

Somewhere inside, you know that you want to be uninhibited and live vibrantly.  It's all about believing in yourself and following your creative vision.

It would be easy to give in to your fears.  Instead, quiet those voices and embrace your gifts.  Loving yourself unconditionally is not a selfish act - it's your right and your life's intention.

If you've embodied this part of yourself, make sure you've found balance and your intentions are pure.  You may have made the honest mistake of assuming you should always be the center of attention.  If you find yourself acting selfish or elitist, or your confidence turns into entitlement, then you're using your abilities in unhealthy ways.

Also make an effort to empathize and collaborate - if you ignore others' needs or opinions because you're so consumed with your own experience, you're wasting your potential.

Ultimately, all these choices are yours to make and these instructions are merely clues.  It's not necessarily the path of least resistance, but it's a possibility for what could be and for how you might feel truly fulfilled.